A guy I’ve been hanging out with casually told me he doesn’t want to date. I pulled the 9 of wands for how he sees me?
I’m confused by this. This guy and I have been having a great time together and genuinely enjoy each other’s company. We’ve known each other for years and I’ve always had my eye on him but we’re just now taking the time to get to know each other in person.
Even after he said he didn’t want to date, we still laughed a bunch and even made out and overall had a great time! I really like him but don’t like that he said that because we’re just getting to know each other and I have no expectations of us dating since we’ve only hung out twice.
I’m just wondering if this 9 of wands means in this situation. he likes me but is putting his guard up because he’s been hurt or does he think that I’m a hurt individual
Using rider Waite deck I pulled:(all upright)
- The true me: 10 of wands – he’s pretty confusing and I’m not sure if i want to pursue someone who’s unavailable
- The true him: the high priestess- he’s mysterious, we get it
- How he sees me: 9 of wands – ??
- How I see him: page of pentacles – I think he’s creative incredible and very attractive
Edit: why is this getting down voted?