How to tell timing?

I’ve been having trouble determining my dating situation. I broke up with my now ex boyfriend almost 2 months ago and I miss him, but I think it’s mostly because I’m lonely. Since then, I’ve been on and off dating apps a bit.

I asked the cards what to do. They said my time will come but it’s not now and that I should shut up. But I also don’t know how to tell timing (and got the “shut up” message when I asked for it). How do I do it?